With the rapid development of socio -economic capabilities, boys and girls who grew up in social culture and art in the new period have richer and wonderful cultural activities than their parents.As everyone knows, because of this rich social and cultural activities, they have also suffered more and more seductive, and sometimes carelessness will have adverse effects that cannot be retained.
Xiao Jing is only 20 years old.She is a girl who is both cheerful and lively, likes to play and sing, and loves to cry, and loves new things.But recently, she did not often play with her good friends, and she was pregnant unexpectedly.
But Xiao Jing didn’t know who the child’s father was!Mom and Dad asked Xiao Jing what was going on?But Xiao Jing closed his mouth without talking.The sad dad was angry and didn’t ask who the child was.The breath of anger ignored her and asked her to reflect in the house.
Xiao Jing branch, but she did not know who the child’s biological father was. At first, she met a lot of good friends in the circle of friends. She did not establish a correct value for men and women.Over the relationship, but now she is pregnant unexpectedly, she doesn’t know who this child is.
Xiao Jing gave birth to a child alone under the taunt of his family and the guidance of others.She then retracted five boys who had had a relationship with her and took them to parent -child identification.As everyone knows, the result made Xiao Jing unable to calm down for a long time.These five people are not the baby’s father.But Xiaojing wants to know who the child’s father is?When Xiao Jing remembered the previous thing, he suddenly thought of a person.
This man and Xiao Jing only had a "one -night stand". This man is a middle -aged 20 -year -old.Then Xiao Jing took him to do parent -child identification, and it was really his child.But this man said to Xiao Jing that he had no feelings for her, but just had a relationship. I had a wife and a woman. It was impossible to abandon her family because of a child.Later, after negotiation, the man compensated Xiao Jing for a sum of money and agreed to pay for the monthly maintenance fee.This incident made me deeply aware that girls must establish a correct outlook on life and values.
The 20 -year -old Xiao Jing was pregnant with her children, facing the unknown future and felt confused and lacking.
What kind of values have caused Xiao Jing’s misfortune now?Xiao Jing, who has just stepped into the society, has no concept of the relationship between the sexual relationship, which has caused Xiao Jing to feel that the relationship with men is very casual. This value is inseparable from the education of the family of social colleges.It is very likely that the girl’s girl will lead to the pain of the pain.
Nourishing girls are usually more worried than raising boys.Everyone is worried that there are many bad atmosphere in social development, which will cause children to learn badly, but everyone always avoids the sexual relationship.As parents, how can everyone educate and guide girls correctly?
1. Girls must self -respect and love.
Girls have to understand self -esteem, self -esteem and self -esteem since childhood, and cherish their bodies and ideas.Moms and dads should correctly guide children to pay attention to and cherish herself in daily life, and inform her of love and self -esteem is the basic of women.If they want external love and attention, the prerequisite is that they have sufficient self -esteem and self -esteem.
2. Proper view of love.
Real love is an eternal topic.When the little girl is just an adult, parents must create the appropriate view of love for children early.Even if she is still in the stage of emotional germination, she needs to make her figure out what is a prominent marriage concept, the definition and standard of love.Moderate sexual enlightenment education is also indispensable.Don’t feel embarrassed.Good family enlightenment education and marriage guidance cultural education can make women benefit for life.
3. Learn to refuse.
At the substantive level of chemicals and spiritual spirit, parents should look at the girls in the field of working ability, broaden their horizons, and enhance their cognitive ability. This is also her entry behind the truth.
4. Shape the correct values of life planning.
Guide children correctly and create correct values and life planning.When a girl has always had a noble and unwavering life planning in the process of growth, she was able to move along the correct values to avoid having to go astray.It can also be more professional and careful in daily life and study.
The growth stage of girls cannot tolerate a little loss. All the incorrect ideas will leave scars that cannot be remedied. As a parent, it is necessary to guide the children’s future to make children have a correct life.
At the end of the article, I would like to ask you all, do you care about your children?May wish to discuss in the comment area
